For most of my life, I followed the script. I was the “perfect” daughter—brilliant in school, skilled in tennis, playing an instrument, and surrounded by the right friends.
I graduated third in Lebanon in Baccalaureate, completed both my graduate studies with high distinction, and worked at some of the best institutions and organizations.
On paper, I was on track to achieve everything that would make my parents proud and fulfill their dreams for me. I was headed for a prestigious career in international organizations—a career that supported my father’s political ambitions and satisfied society’s expectations of me.
Then, everything shifted. I fell in love, got married, and had two children. I made the choice to stay home with them in their early years. This decision surprised my family, friends, colleagues, and professors. No one understood. For many, there was no “shining star” or impressive title attached to staying home and raising children.
I was judged. I was told I was “wasting my potential,” that I was giving up on my career.
A friend even suggested that I consider an abortion, and I chose to end that friendship.
My father advised me to finish my PhD while at home with my kids.
Some old classmates from my graduate studies spread rumors that I was “just living off my rich husband.”
It felt like a never-ending cycle of guilt, judgment, and confusion.
The joy I found in motherhood was overshadowed by the weight of others’ expectations and my fear of missing out on my career.
Justify my choices, feeling like I had to prove I was still valuable outside of the traditional career path. I took on part-time jobs that didn’t fulfill me, hoping they would “keep me in the game” for when I was ready to return to work.
But over time, through a journey of deep soul-searching, growth, and some painful failures, I realized something profound: I didn’t need to justify my life to anyone.
I didn’t have to live for others’ approval or to fulfill their expectations. I had the right to choose my path—no matter how unconventional it seemed.
I embraced my true calling as a coach, and that has been a transformative journey for me.
It’s been about owning my choices—successes, failures, and everything in between. Through this process, I’ve healed from years of people-pleasing, perfectionism, and the constant need for validation through overachieving.
Today, I help others reclaim their voice and their life. I support my clients in realizing that it’s possible to live a fulfilling life, on their terms—whether that means pursuing a career, staying home with kids, or anything else that brings them joy and satisfaction.
The key is realizing that fulfillment is not about meeting external expectations, but about listening to your own heart and embracing the path that aligns with your true self.
I firmly believe that women (and men) can have it all—and it doesn’t have to look like what others expect. You don’t have to be perfect at everything, and you don’t need to choose between family and career.
If you’re struggling to find your voice, feel guilty for not meeting others’ expectations, or are trying to juggle it all, I’m here to guide you. It’s never too late to choose your path, find your fulfillment, and stop living for others.
Your journey is yours to own.
If my story resonates with you, or if you’re feeling stuck in the balancing act between your career and personal life, I’d love to connect. Let’s have a conversation about how you can reclaim your fulfillment and create a life that aligns with your true values.
Drop me a message or comment below—I’m here to help you navigate your own journey.
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